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Woman’s Issues Information
The issues that women face these are becoming increasingly complex. Not, as many would like to believe that we women are getting more of a hand in running the world, but the price we pay for it, or rather the price we are made to pay for it is unnatural.
For someone reason, and I guess this will be going on for some months to come, the US presidential election certainly was a rollercoaster ride in the world’s history. For the first time ever in the country’s history, a woman ran for president and another ran for vice president. Neither won, but that’s part of the game. What shook many people though, was the fact how both were taken. Comments about Hillary Clinton’s cackle as well as Sarah Palin’s leaking amniotic fluid were disturbing. All across the country and the world, people were criticizing the women’s outward appearances, their laughs, the totally gender related issues they had, instead of focusing 100% on their policies.
This is not to say that no one took notice of the policies they were each batting but the fact is, there was more media hype about Palin being a former beauty queen at the beginning of the campaign (and for a prominent part throughout) to make an onlooker wonder what a woman had to do to get some serious criticism. For Palin it came, and this article isn’t really about the comic part of the election, but it’s worth noting that the male presidential candidates are rarely quoted for their looks or poked fun at for their laughter, at least not when they are being sized up for the job. For the guys, the criterion is still merit.
This is just one of those high profile examples that just about everyone has heard about at one point of the other. So when exactly will women, in the minds of other women as well as men, start being judged competent or incompetent based on relevant skills or qualification. Had the above two ladies been judged straight on their performance, there was plenty of material to go on, both in their favor as well as against them. But the strange thing is, a lot of highly educated people just decided to judge from a non-relevant point. Is this how women deserve to be appraised for any position of power they strive for? Will it be ‘she doesn’t like baking chocolate cookies so she really will hate our customers’ for a woman who wants to be a marketing executive? That would be sad.
These elections were a real eye opener, while we still have laws that will grill most people for gender discrimination, what will we do with our sub-conscious brains that have yet to let go of the very well etched in stereotypes of ‘the perfect women’? And no this is not a male bashing piece, we as a human race, tend to hold these stereotypes up, we don’t see all the talent we let go to waste, all the areas where our criticism could have made worlds of a difference, we stick to the archaic for dear life. Sooner or later, the consequences of that will catch up with us.
It happens to every woman at some point.
If you speak to women about their physical goals the most common response you get is that they want to lose weight and tone up.