Jan
That Teens Will Abstain from Sex
It seems a pledge made by teens to refrain from having premarital sex is not enough to actually keep them from going through with it. Not only was the pledge not enough for teenagers to refrain from sexual conduct, the group of teenagers who took the virginity pledge were less likely to use a condom or other form of birth control compared to the non-pledge group.
Times have changed in so many ways from when our parents and grandparents were growing up. Many of our elders married as virgins, most before the age of 25. In more recent years, we have begun to hear of more sexually transmitted diseases, possibly because of the growing number of teens having sex before marriage and with multiple partners. Whether it is peer pressure, the fact that less people are attending church and being taught why abstinence is important, there has definitely been a swing in the norm in the last several decades, as far as sex before marriage is concerned.
After five years, over 80 percent of the teens who had taken the abstinence pledge denied doing so. Rosenbaum said “This high rate of disaffiliation may imply that nearly all virginity pledgers view pledges as nonbinding.” The percentage of teenagers involved in the research that took part in sexual behavior was 57 percent in the pledge group and 50 percent in the non-pledge group. Even more bothersome to me, was the fact that of those taking part in sexual behavior, only 46 percent who pledged abstinence used birth control and the percentage wasn’t much better with the non-pledge group at 52 percent. The groups on average did wait until later to take part in sexual activity than the U.S. national average according to the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction at Indiana University in Bloomington. The average age of both the pledge and non-pledge groups were 21 and the national average was 17.
Sex in teenagers is a huge issue here in the U.S., whether the issue is with babies having babies, the fact that STD’s are being transferred through our teenage population rapidly or the emotional aspect of giving yourself sexually to someone, at such a young age. Parents, teachers, church communities, aunts, uncles, brothers, sisters and friends, we can’t rely on promises of our teens to refrain from sexual activity. We must educate our teens on precautions and responsibilities they have when deciding to venture down the road of sexuality. Many issues would be avoided with abstinence until marriage, but in today’s society, that is no longer the norm, and we must make sure our teenagers realize the consequences and understand the ways to protect themselves.

